This factsheet aims to give a short overview of Disabled Facilities Grants for disabled children. It provides information about what they are and will help you access the information, support and resources that are available in order to apply for them.
Thursday 7th March is World Book Day and we have lots of story books that are suitable for children of all ages available to borrow from our Library.
Sometimes by Rebecca Elliott
A colourful picture book
for young children.
“Toby knows his sister
Clemmie is very brave. When she has to
go to hospital, they both have to help each other face their fears. Together they make hospital a much better
Avery by Marta Altes
A lovely picture book for
“Avery is like other birds
most of the time, but sometimes, feels a bit different. But Avery is not alone”.
The Five of Us by Quentin Blake
An illustrated story for
“Angie, Ollie, Simona,
Mario and Eric are five fantastic friends, each of whom has an unusual
ability. Disaster strikes on a day out
to the countryside but, working together and combining their individual powers,
the Fantastic Five save the day”.
5 to 8 year-olds
Ellie Bean the Drama Queen: how Ellie learned to keep calm and not overreact by Jennie Harding
A story explaining sensory
processing disorder for 5 to 8 year olds.
“This cute children’s book
offers insights into Ellie’s “dramatic” behaviours and provides easy sensory
answers for parents and teachers alike.
Ellies’s story brings home what it’s like to grow up with sensory issues
and helps a child to understand that he or she is not alone”.
Ian’s Walk A Story About Autism by Laurie Lears
A story explaining autism
for children aged 5 to 8
“Julie can’t wait to go to
the park. But she’s not sure she wants
to take her little brother, Ian, who has autism. Ian does things differently. At the park, he doesn’t like the tickle of a
soft feather, but he loves to lie down and press his cheek against the hard
sidewalk. It’s hard for Julie to
understand Ian. But when he gets lost,
Julie discovers that seeing the world differently, through Ian’s eyes, is the
best way to find him”.
My Brother is Autistic by Jennifer Moore Mallinos
An illustrated story for
siblings aged 5 to 8 who have a brother or sister with autism
“Having a brother with
autism can sometimes be hard, especially when he freaks out in front of other
kids at school. It can be so
embarrassing! Maybe if the kids knew
more about autism they’d stop teasing and making fun of Billy and just be
8 to 12 year-olds
Lulu and the Wishing Star by Pippa Fern
A heartwarming story about
disability for children aged 8 to 12
“When Lulu and Sam make a
wish to the Wishing Star, the young and trendy, guitar-playing fairy,
Rock’n’roll-rockety-roo’ appears. She
grants their wish (well… sort of) but in her rush to catch a rock concert,
forgets to leave instructions. Can Lulu
and Sam figure out their newfound powers in time to save their friend?”
Jumpin’ Johnny Get Back to Work! A Child’s Guide to ADHD/Hyperactivity by Michael Gordon
A fun story explaining
ADHD for 8 to 12 year olds
“This story is told by a
youngster who truly struggles to achieve, but doesn’t always meet with success
and acceptance. Although he moves
through the day experiencing frustration and embarrassment, he still maintains
his sense of humour and spirit of determination”.
The Panicosaurus by K I Al-Ghani
A story about managing
anxiety for children with Asperger Syndrome aged 8 to 12
“Sometimes the Panicosaurus tricks Mabel’s brain into panicking about certain challenges, such as walking past a big dog on the street or when her favourite teacher is not at school. With the help of Smartosaurus, who lets her know there is really nothing to be afraid of, Mabel discovers different ways to manage Panicosaurus, and defeat the challenges he creates for her”.
If you’d like to borrow any of these books, completely free of charge, contact our librarian on [email protected]. To find out more about the library check out our library page.
Emma tells us about the challenges of transitioning from child to adult services. You can read part one here.
It is now the month before Joshua’s 18th birthday, so we really are on the countdown to adulthood now. We have recently had a weekend with a hospital admission for seizures, which brought home some of the reality of what is to come.
In the ambulance on our way to hospital there was a debate between the paramedics over whether my 17 year old son would be treated by children’s A&E or Adults. The paramedic was under the impression that, as he was still in full time education, he would still be treated by paediatrics but there was some hesitation over whether or not they would accept him, once we arrived. Apparently for our local trust, adulthood begins at 16 and, after some debate, with Joshua on the trolley, they compromised and accepted him into Children’s A&E, but they warned me, if he was admitted onto a ward, that it would need to be an adult ward. I just wanted my son to receive urgent treatment and so I accepted their contradictory and confusing distinction.
In fact, when he was settled and we talked more, once they found out that he was still under a paediatric neurologist, as we had not yet been transferred to Adults, they relented and we were accepted by the Children’s ward. This confusion gave me an insight of what may lay ahead in our future, with just a month to go until this critical birthday. It seems that Joshua currently exists in an odd limbo-land.
I took the opportunity once on the ward, to ask the nurses something that had been bothering me for a long time. I had been told on one of our hospital stays, that there would be no facility for me to stay with Joshua once he was an adult, if he requires any overnight hospital stays. I was reassured to hear that this was scaremongering and that this was not the case. Nursing staff would need me there to reassure adult Joshua and to act as his interpreter too.
I did have a glimpse at the future though, that Children’s A&E would be preferable as, as the A&E consultant explained that there would be “fewer drunks and druggies in there!”, the prospect of which sent shivers down my spine. I was much more comfortable surrounded by murals of jungle animals and smiling children’s nurses, even though he was clearly too long for their trolleys then hospital beds on the ward.
After this hospital admission, I chased both his paediatric neurologist and his children’s epilepsy nurse, to remind them that Joshua’s birthday was fast approaching. Both have now come back to me with dates when we will be introduced to the new adult specialist in March. I have also had a telephone review with the Continence Service to discuss a handover to the adult service, when a home visit will be required and no doubt, they will try to talk us out of the current continence products that we are happy with and that we fought for, for a year.
We have recently had the review meeting for Joshua’s Education Health Care Plan, where both his current and adult social workers were present. There was a great deal of discussion about Joshua’s future respite and daycare, once he leaves education. At the end of the meeting, the Children’s social worker bid me goodbye and wished me luck, as she will never see me or Joshua again, which was a strange feeling. In the run up to adulthood, I keep getting these little nudges or reminders, so that I am forced not to ignore it.
Thankfully Joshua’s current respite provision has some flexibility to extend his stays, to assist with his transition to an adult respite provision. I think that I have finally found somewhere that I could picture Joshua enjoying, that is just 35 minutes from home and so we have time to plan his future there and to prepare him – and me – for the changeover. I will be emotional when he finally says goodbye to his current provider and even in the EHCP meeting, my only tears came when I tried to express what their service and care has meant to us as a family.
But then once that is resolved, we will have to turn our attention to the even thornier issue of how he will be occupied during the day once he leaves school at 19! Joshua does not have the capacity to go on to further studies or some form of manual employment, so it will only be about keeping him occupied and happy for the rest of his life. We will be looking to replace the role that school plays in his life currently: some reason to get up and out in the morning and somewhere where he meets and enjoys the company of his peers and caring staff, while they do fun activities. I cannot address that yet, but I know that it is on the horizon and I must not leave it until the last minute but tackle it.
School will organise “taster sessions” of some alternative providers. These are big choices that we will be making together for his future and it feels a heavy responsibility to get it right for him. I am hoping that once again, I will recognise the right provision when I see it, that it will give me that sense of ‘home’ when we look around. For me, when Joshua has found the right school and respite setting, then they have both felt like home and so sadly, this birthday he will be evicted from his respite home and next year, he will be evicted from school too. Thank goodness that there is a year gap between them as to lose both on his 18th birthday, would be so unsettling and would leave us in inevitable crisis.
So that is a blessing, as is the fact that we will be supported throughout the change. I was recently asked by a parent if I would advise them to get a social worker in place, now that her son was 16, in readiness for transition. Of course it would depend on how good the social worker was, but I would not want to navigate this change without somebody who knows the system at our side, fighting our corner. Because it will be a battle, no doubt, and so we need a coach shouting out advice from the sidelines and picking us up when we fall down.
We’re thrilled to introduce you to the two newest members of our sleep team, Carwyn Tywyn and Claire Cox.
Hi, my name is Carwyn and I
was delighted to begin 2019 in my new role as Sleep Practitioner at Cerebra.
My early career background was
in current affairs, both as an academic and a journalist. I was awarded a PhD
in Welsh Politics at Cardiff University. After a brief period as a research
assistant and academic tutor, I became Political Correspondent for GOLWG, the
Welsh language weekly current affairs magazine. In this role, I was based
full-time at the National Assembly for Wales during 2006-07.
It was while working at the
National Assembly that I became more informed about and interested in the work
of the voluntary sector in Wales. Since 2008 I have worked in research and
senior development roles for a number of organisations, including the
Disability Law Service, Home Start UK and Mencap Cymru.
My role prior to joining
Cerebra was as a Regional Caseworker for the Mencap Cymru “WISE” project,
which, in partnership with Cardiff Law School, provided advice and support in
relation to learning disabilities. In 2018 the project was awarded the LawWorks
award for “Most Effective Pro Bono Partnership”. Whilst at Mencap, I also received
training in specialist approaches such as Mental Health First Aid, which has had
a major influence on my outlook.
I have two children, Heledd (11) and Gwyn (6). I think it is the combination of being both a parent and frontline disability caseworker, which has attracted me to the role of Sleep Practitioner. I feel very lucky to have the chance to apply and give back some of my knowledge and experience to children and parents who may be struggling in all kinds of life circumstances.
In another life, I am a
professional harpist, and was winner of the folk harp competition at the
National Eisteddfod in 2013. Along with my daughter, I am a keen supporter of
AFC Wimbledon. We saw them win at Wembley in 2016!
I look forward with anticipation to my new career at Cerebra. Diolch yn fawr.
Claire. I am super excited to be part of the sleep team. I can’t wait to start
helping families with their children’s sleep issues and empowering them to make
the changes they need.
volunteering with many charities over the years I am so happy to be working for
such a wonderful one!
I come to Cerebra from working privately in London as a Prenatal/postnatal/Newborn care specialist, trouble shooter, Nanny and sleep practitioner.
Prior to this I used to be a professional dancer which took me all over the place doing many different things!
I also had my own ballet school.
partner and I have our own theatrical production company of which we are very
are about to leave London to live our dream life in Clovelly, North
It’s a big year of change for me and I couldn’t be happier to be working with all of you for such a worthwhile and needed charity!
Emma tells us about the period of transition that her son, 17 year-old Joshua is about to face and the services that are available to help the transition.
I have always feared Joshua becoming older as it felt like a
step into the unknown. Every birthday sounded so much older than the year just
gone, the jump from 9 to 10 years old for instance seemed enormous, but of
course it wasn’t at all, it is just a number. Now the jump from 17 to 18 ,
where we are approaching now, that is a
significant change. In the eyes of the law, Joshua will become an adult next
March, when he turns 18. I cannot keep my head buried in the sand about this
one, this change is approaching rapidly and so I need to face it head on.
“I don’t need to think about that yet surely!”
Even as young as 15/16, health and education professionals referred to ‘Transition’ and I tried hard to ignore them and joke that I did not know what would happen next week, never mind that far ahead. But the references to transition did not go away, they gathered pace and they cropped up when we saw his neurologist who would be handing him onto an adult neurologist, our children’s epilepsy nurse who has taken care of his seizures since he was 4 years old would be passing him on and in his Education Health Care Plan meetings, when they would ask what we wanted Joshua to do when he left school at 19? I wanted to shout out loud “Stop it, he’s only 16… I don’t need to think about that yet surely!!” We had finally got to a comfortable place – he was in the best school for him, we had found respite provision that suited us all and we had established doctors who knew and understood him – and now, because of an anniversary, everyone wanted to throw all that we had carefully built up into a big bag and shake it up. I resisted it with all my might.
Then something changed this May and I began to relax and embrace the change, to see it as an opportunity rather than a threat. This change was due largely to one person: a social worker who was allocated to us from ‘Futures Plus’, who would represent Joshua once he was an adult. She paid us several visits, getting to know both us as his parents and Joshua in his home, school and respite session. She always delivered what she promised to do and most importantly, she listened, giving us the time to explain how we felt or how things are, she even saw my husband and I separately, which nobody has done before, to explore our very different perspectives.
Respite for young people
In my mind I had envisaged adult daycare and respite
services as being grim places, where my 18 year old son might be mixing with
80+ year old dementia sufferers, with the staff trying to juggle their very
different needs. Our social worker immediately explained that there were facilities
specifically for young people and so I
relaxed and decided that Joshua might actually enjoy the next step of his life,
rather than it being a necessary evil. She visited all of the local adult
respite places and even rated them from her own perspective, but encouraged us
to visit each one to make up our own minds. I am confident that she too is
determined to find somewhere suitable for Joshua’s needs. We have prioritised
Respite as his current facility cannot have him beyond 18, whereas he can stay
at school , in 6th form, until he is 19 so we have an extra year to
find daycare solutions. So far we have looked at 2 of the 4 in our local authority
area and I plan to get round the others this month. Joshua had to go out of
area for his current short breaks and we have been reassured that if there is
nothing suitable locally, we can argue that Joshua’s needs can only be met by a
provision out of area. So far I have to say that I have found nothing that
comes close to his current provision. I will not compromise, he will not be
going somewhere mediocre just because it is local. I now know what I am looking
for, as we have experienced the best, and I will keep searching until I find
I have never been good at change, it always seems to be forced upon us just when things are settled. I can recall begging Joshua’s nursery school head teacher if he could stay with her until he was 16 please. She replied kindly, “No Emma, he can’t, he will get to be too big for the furniture here”. We made the move to mainstream primary, then to a special school and then to his current special school so, given that I hate change, we have done a fair amount of it in Joshua’s 17 years and of course, we survived. The difference is that this time we have a social worker by our sides who will help us to negotiate our way through this mysterious maze and help to pull us through – I am sure.
As we approach March 5th, I will update you on how we are handling transition and will outline the highs and lows that we are bound to face. I sincerely hope that our experience may help some of you who might also have a son or daughter who is approaching this critical age. I do not want to scare those readers who have ten year-olds now, but this Transition will come much faster than you think, so it is worth thinking about it sooner, rather than later. If I had read that in 2011, I know I would have ignored that advice, thinking that it was not relevant to me, but I would urge you not to be an ostrich like I was. Perhaps you can learn from my mistakes, so that you can hear the ‘transition’ word without a shudder.
You can read more from Emma in her article ‘Introduction to us‘ and on her blog Ups and Downs Mum. If there are any topics you would like her to write about let us know in the comments.
Have you been told that your child can’t have the type of continence product that she needs? Are you concerned about the quality of the products you use? Read on to find out what you can do to make sure your child gets suitable products.
We also know from our work with families that the type and/or quality of products can cause problems too. We recently heard from a parent who wanted ‘pull-ups’ for her daughter instead of nappies. She was told that her local health authority didn’t supply them and she contacted the LEaP Project for help.
We wrote a template letter to help the parent make a complaint to her local health authority. Our letter quotes from the relevant guidance, which makes it clear that children should be assessed and provided with products which meet their individual needs. We wanted to share this template letter with other families who might find themselves in a similar situation.
So, if you’ve been told that your child can’t have the products s/he needs, you can use our template letter to make a complaint. We have separate versions for England and Wales.
We’ve got a great new children’s book in our library that explores the consequences of being different. ‘That dog has got a beard!’ is all about Buster who feels sad and worried because every time he goes out for a walk people stop and stare at him. He doesn’t know why this is happening but with a little help from his family, he begins to realise that being different isn’t such a bad thing after all.
Author Natalie Ann Beattie told us a little bit about herself and the reasons why she wrote the story:
“First and foremost, I am a mother of two young children, Ethan and Isobelle. Ethan is 13 years old and Isobelle is 6. My son Ethan has Autism and ADHD, which are both very challenging and complex conditions. Before becoming a full-time mum and carer for Ethan, I was a Primary teacher for almost 10 years. I taught children from the age of 3 up to 11.
When my son was a little over 18 months things began to change, he stopped speaking and eating, and his behaviour became challenging and repetitive. I left my teaching to focus on his care, and at the tender age of 4 he was diagnosed with ASD and, two years later, ADHD. I have spent the last 10 years plus gathering all the appropriate help and support required to manage his condition and thus enable him to develop socially, as well as mentally and physically. As you can imagine, it has been an incredibly difficult and challenging journey for all of us. However, the time has come to use all those years of experience in a positive and fulfilling way.
“That dog has got a beard!” is essentially a story about a dog who, because of the way he looks attracts a lot of unwanted attention from other people. When the owners of the other dogs start talking about Buster’s beard and laugh at him, he becomes sad and worried and struggles to work out why he is different to everyone else. Fortunately, with the help and love of his family he learns to embrace his difference and become a happy dog once again.
The story is loosely based on some of the negative responses we have received as a family when we have gone out together with Ethan and something has triggered a ‘meltdown’. The frequent stares, snide remarks and hurtful comments have been devastating and a cruel reminder of the need for people to accept and become more aware of children and adults with autism. We have learned to embrace our son’s condition and to see him as a very special and wonderfully unique young person. I felt that now was the time for the rest of society to appreciate his autism and learn to celebrate, not mock, other people’s differences, whether they be physical, mental or behavioural. In essence, for society to accept him, not the other way around.
The second reason for my story is a simple one. Every time we go out for a walk with our Labradoodle, Buster, people stop and make a comment about his beard. The phrase ‘that dog has got a beard’ was one that I heard so many times that it sparked off the idea for the book. How often do you see a dog with a beard? Especially one that is 7 inches long! Buster is a wonderful dog and has an amazing temperament. He is loved wherever he goes and we are regularly invited to schools, mother and toddler groups, sports clubs and residential homes to do book readings. Buster is a hit with all ages.
Thank you Cerebra for including my book in your library.”
The Workshops are run by our trained facilitators and will help parents and carers to access health, social care and other services for their children. They include case studies and template letters on direct payments, respite care, Disabled Facilities Grants (Disabled Home Adaptations in Scotland), residential placement and school transport. By the end of the workshop, parent/carers will be able to:
Identify commonly occurring problems facing families accessing services and recognise different types of dispute
Come up with problem-solving approaches to these problems
Use a number of template letters when corresponding with public bodies
The workshops have also been accredited by the CPD Certification Service.
The workshops are free of charge and open to any organisation or parent/carer forum that supports children with a brain condition. They usually run from 10am to 2pm to fit in with the school run. All we ask is that the organiser provides a venue (with a projector), the attendees (a minimum of 10 and maximum of 25) and that there is a 30 minute lunch break. It’s up to the organisers whether they provide refreshments or ask those attending to bring their own.
The workshops have had great reviews and some of the feedback includes:
“The training was very useful and highlighted to me how much I roll over when asked. I now feel empowered to be able to get those things which my son needs”.
“I found the information really helpful also and feel sure it will help me support our families better in tackling some of the issues we discussed”.
“Thank you again for your support through our journey, we do not regret making the complaint, nor where we are now. Too many people here do not get the support they are entitled to but we were the ones that stood up”.
“Knowledge is power! We need as many of these sessions as possible to enable us to take action”.
If you are interested in hosting a workshop then please get in touch with[email protected].