Our Regional Officer Lilly Fahey recently helped Emma, mum to 12 year old Rory who has Global Developmental Delay. Emma told us their story.
“I am a mum; my son Rory will be 12 years old this month.
Ever since he started primary school he has been ‘Statemented’. Before Rory started Primary school we had ‘Portage’ come round to my home to see Rory and help encourage him to speak. When he was at pre-school they were concerned that he wasn’t talking and he wasn’t able to keep up with his peers.
He was born 4 days late and was delivered by emergency Caeserian. He had trouble breathing he was in the Neonatal unit for just over 2 weeks in a incubator. He had trouble feeding and was bottle fed.
He struggled throughout mainstream school, most of Primary and the start of Middle. He could not cope there at all. I used to get phone calls every day to say I had to go and collect him because he was struggling. He was under the Senco, he had one-to-one support and also had one-to-one at Primary. He had one-to-one every day at Middle school.
I had a meeting with the Senco in the end because Rory refused to go to school and she actually said, and I was thinking along the same wavelength as her, that ‘Rory will not cope in year 6 or when he gets older’. By that time I was so relieved that the Senco could see that he was struggling. About a year and a half ago Rory was Diagnosed with Global Developmental Delay (GDD). The Paediatrician said that even though he’s 11, Rory has the mental age of 5 years old.
In year 5 at Middle school we pushed for a specialist Provision for him. He is now attending a specialist school. He started last September and he now loves going to school. He does have his moments every now again. He goes to school by Transport every day, which he loves. He’s a different boy now.
Also not long ago he was diagnosed with a few heart problems including ‘narrowing of the arteries’ and ‘hole in the heart’. One of his valves isn’t working as it should be. He has sensory issues, anxiety issues and is also on the autistic spectrum.
Rory’s father and I divorced back in 2010 but I am now remarried. I got married again in 2013. Rory Loves my hubby Neale, he gets on really well with him. My hubby gets on well with Rory.
Also I’ve not long ago been diagnosed with (GDD) Global developmental delay myself”.